BECOMING THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF: The Real Truth about Habit Building, Alignment, and Letting Go of Who You Used to be

How to Break Old Patterns, Build New Habits, and Transform Your Health and Mindset from the Inside Out

Ever feel like you’ve outgrown your old life, but you’re not sure who you are becoming next? We all talk about becoming “the best version” of ourselves, but what does that really mean? Is it about doing more? Hustling harder? Hitting every goal on the vision board? Not quite. Sometimes, it’s just about slowing down long enough to realize the version of you that got here might not be the one that’s meant to take you further.

Everything that you have been through, good and bad, has made you who you are today and brought you to this moment in time. The key is to love yourself no matter what version of you is present now. You are a work in progress. We all are. Sometimes we put unrealistic expectations on ourselves, and this leads to disappointment, but the positive news is that you can break old patterns that keep holding you back from where you want to be in life.

Let Go of the Life You’ve Outgrown

Authenticity is more important than expectation. There comes a point where you have to release the version of yourself that no longer fits the habits, the patterns, and even the people that belonged to an older chapter. The version of you now is remembering the one that use to be and struggling to be the one you want to be. Does that make sense?

It’s okay to outgrow your past self. In fact, it’s healthy. The real growth begins when you stop forcing yourself into old molds, old habits and start creating space for who you’re becoming, no matter how old you are. It is never too late to start a new chapter or set new goals. It is also okay to bring the best parts of your old self on the journey to your new self or shed all those layers altogether if need be. Whatever works for you. The important thing to remember is that YOU hold the POWER to make the choices of where you want to go and who you want to become. We are ever changing beings.

It is also vital to understand that when you are not happy physically, (as in not feeling well,) it affects your emotional and mental wellbeing.

One Day at a Time: Progress, Not Perfection

Transformation doesn’t happen in a single “aha” moment. It takes time and patience. Sometimes the number of 21 days gets tossed around a lot, because it takes about that much time to build a habit. Research shows it actually takes closer to two months (and sometimes longer) to form a routine that truly stick.

So instead of chasing a timeline, focus on consistency. Start writing down the goals you want to achieve and/or the habits you want to change or establish. The first few weeks are powerful because they build momentum, but what really matters is how you keep showing up once the early motivation fades.

Every day is a chance to get closer to the life that actually fits you now. Not the one you were told to want, but the one that feels aligned for YOU! You must do what makes you happy and healthy!

Ask yourself:
✨ What’s one thing I can do today that supports the version of me I’m becoming?
✨ What can I release that’s been keeping me stuck in yesterday’s story?

If you need some guidelines to make your transformation process a little more visual and do-able, here are two options you can start with:

21/90 rule: 

This popular guideline suggests it takes 21 days for a habit and 90 days for it to become a permanent part of a routine.

3-3-3 rule: 
This rule suggests three days, three weeks, and three months. The first three days are often the hardest, but it’s a simplified guideline and not a precise measure. 

The Inner Alchemy: Health, Mindset & Energy

True personal growth is a form of alchemy, transforming your inner world so it reflects outward abundance. When your body, mind, and spirit are in sync, everything else starts to flow. We all know that when you feel well, you live well. Whether you are single, have a spouse/partner or you are a parent, the best way to give fully of yourself and be the best version of yourself is when you are feeling good.

Life is a cycle, which can go either way. When you don’t feel well or you feel bad about yourself (physically or emotionally,) everything and everyone around you is affected as a result. Conversely, if you are feeling good, looking good and feeling that high vibin’ energy, that too is contagious and affects those around you, but more importantly, it affects your own self-worth.

Health, (physical and mental,) truly is the greatest wealth.

💚 Health becomes your foundation: you nourish yourself from the inside out.
🧠 Mindset becomes your compass: guiding you through fear and self-doubt.
🌟 Energy becomes your currency: the vibration that attracts opportunities and relationships aligned with your purpose.

This isn’t about chasing perfection; it’s about alignment. When your habits, values, and energy all work together, you start to radiate from within and that light naturally attracts more balance, clarity, and prosperity into your life.

We have to learn to gently detox from bad habits, bad relationships, bad food habits, and from the bad thoughts that creep into our mind when we are feeling at our lowest. When we detox from the inside out, it helps our bodies heal and get back into alignment. So, I encourage you to start today with your gentle detox to get yourself back on track!

Healthy and happy means you are glowing from the inside out.

You Already Have the Power

Becoming your best self isn’t about reinventing who you are, it’s about remembering who you’ve always been, before life got crazy (whether by choice or by chance,) the conditioning of who we were taught to be, and the never-ending self-doubt that often keeps us stuck. When we start to doubt our ability to grow and get better, is when the red flags start to pop up. We have to learn the difference between what we want and don’t want and what no longer serves us and to be patient with ourselves and where we are at emotionally and physically speaking.

You have to learn to focus on what truly makes you happy and what your priorities are now.

Too many times, we find ourselves trapped in a version of ourselves that we use to be, and as wonderful as that version may (or may not have been,) it is not relevant to this time and place. Used to be’s don’t count anymore. The only thing that really matters is the here and now. So, give yourself permission to evolve, to heal, to renew, to rise up again and especially give yourself the time and grace to get there.

One day at a time. One aligned choice at a time.

You already have the power to be happy (and healthy.) The rest is just remembering, deciding and living like it’s true.

The best version of you doesn’t appear overnight. It is created in small, intentional steps, for example:
🌿 Eating for vitality.
💫 Thinking with awareness.
🔥 Moving with purpose.
💖 Acting from integrity.

💫 Your Turn

Take a moment today to think about your own transformation.
What part of yourself are you ready to release and what version of you is waiting to emerge?

Share your thoughts in the comments or journal it out privately. You don’t need a whole notebook or actual journal. You can use something like the daily journal worksheet below. The key is to start. Start with reflecting upon the things you are grateful for and what you have accomplished in a day. Be real and be authentic in your feelings and responses, so you can analyze where you are and where you want to be.

The moment you claim it; you start living it. 🌿

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3I/ATLAS & YESHUA: A Cosmic Mirror for Humanity’s Awakening

If you have been paying attention to the news, society and social media lately, you can sense that something feels like it’s shifting, not just in the world, but in us. You can sense it when you look at the headlines, even when you look up at the sky, or even when we start to look with in ourselves. We are not the same. Something has shifted or is beginning to shift. Humanity is at this strange crossroads between science and spirit, faith and awakening.

And sometimes I wonder if something or someone extraordinary showed up tomorrow, would we even recognize it? Do you think that humanity would be prepared if an interdimensional being(s) or object arrived on Earth in a UFO (or UAP, like they call it now-a-days,) or let’s say, an ascended master, such as Yeshua (most people call him “Jesus,”) descended upon Earth?

Would humanity really believe it was Jesus or would they treat him like just another immigrant?

What if an Interdimensional Visitor Showed Up Tomorrow?

If something or someone like that showed up, a being that operated beyond our normal understanding of physics or consciousness, people would split into camps instantly. Some would worship. Some would panic. Some would find a way to sell tickets. (Let’s be honest, that’s probably the U.S. reaction.) And some would just scroll past it, calling it CGI and not believe any of it.

Maybe some of you could meet that kind of energy with calm awareness, but most would wrestle with it through filters of fear, ego, and religion. Humanity’s track record with “different” isn’t exactly reassuring, especially lately in the United States. It seems that anyone who looks or sounds different, is being persecuted these days, which is really mind-blowing and sad, given how much history we have lived through in the last 200 years in this country, but apparently not learned acceptance or tolerance very well yet.

The gap between what people say they believe and what they actually embody is a wide one. Everyone loves the idea of enLIGHTenment until it starts shining on the parts they’ve avoided. No one likes it when they have to look into a mirror at their own faults and shortcomings or until it starts illuminating their shadows.

If a being like Yeshua appeared, it wouldn’t just be “peace and love.” It would be a real moment of truth – a test of faith over fear that would put many people’s beliefs into question. How would the public respond, whether religious or not? How would people handle if “Jesus” really showed up on Earth or alien beings that look and act different than humans? Honestly, if we can’t handle our differences at the human level, here on Earth, how could we handle an entity or being not of this world, a consciousness that dissolves all categories altogether?

The irony is, most people expect to have some kind of religious epiphany or mystical experience and expect it to be smooth, calm and peaceful, if Yeshua were to really come to Earth, when in all likelihood it would most probably be the opposite. It would be persecution, doubt, fear and more like an earthquake full of truth and revelations about the self and human behavior. Have you ever wondered what it would be like to encounter Yeshua or an interdimensional being (not of this Earthly plane?)

Personally, I don’t think it would be anything dark or “evil,” just a little shocking at first (to say the least.) For those with true authentic faith, it would feel so real it would force them to look at themselves in a reflective kind of way and analyze how they have been living their lives and treating each other.

I’m not a religious person, but I’ve found myself thinking a lot about Yeshua lately in recent times. Maybe because, at his core, his message was about empowerment, and I am a huge proponent of empowering others whenever possible. He preached that the true divine spark lives within each of us. We each hold the power within ourselves. This is something I can definitely align with. Not all the other stuff that came after his death. All the organized religion, dogma, indoctrination and hierarchy that turned into the kind of fanaticism that misses the point entirely. Too many people started worshipping him instead of realizing he came to remind us of who we really are.

The more I delve into Yeshua (Jesus) teachings the more I recognize he was not meant to be worshiped but mirrored. A teacher, who showed people what divine consciousness looks like when it’s fully embodied in a human being. I’d like to think of him less as a savior and more as someone who shows us the way, a way-shower: someone reminding humanity that the kingdom of “heaven” isn’t a place, it’s an awakened state already within. There are many people online lately asking ai these questions about “Who Jesus was and what did his teachings really mean” which to me, indicates that people are starting to finally question what they have been taught and lead to believe for hundreds of years. There is most definitely a shift in consciousness happening, even in people who do not consider themselves religious, but more spiritual, like myself, are asking those questions.

Yeshua often spoke of the ‘kingdom of heaven,’ and I’ve come to see that not as a distant place somewhere above us, but as a state of higher awareness already living within. Many people picture heaven as a physical realm, and that’s understandable because it gives shape to something mysterious. It gives people the hope that there is something better, somewhere “out there.” But to me, it’s more like a frequency, an energy we attune to when we live in love, compassion, and truth. It is a frequency or different realm (dimension) we aspire to ascend to.

Over the centuries, his followers and institutions built around him have often turned that inward message outward, turning it into rules, hierarchies, dogma and especially indoctrination. That’s part of why modern religion often misses the heart of his teachings and why, for a long time, I struggled to connect with it at all and even rejected. Religion, in my opinion became more about fear and worship, than internal power and awareness. It is putting someone else on a pedestal instead of recognizing we hold the power within, in the image of the Creator/Source.

Lately, with so much happening in the U.S., from white Christian nationalism to discrimination against immigrants, I’ve been reflecting on his life and words more than ever. What strikes me is that, at its essence, his message wasn’t about worshipping, rituals, or control. It was about living with love, tolerance, and kindness, about recognizing the divine spark in each person. That’s the message I hope people remember: the kingdom of “heaven” isn’t a distant place, it’s a frequency, a state of awakening we carry within ourselves. And who know what we will learn about ourselves and our origins as we continue to awaken and ask questions as a collective.


Enter 3I/ATLAS: The Cosmic Mystery No One Can Explain

Now, switching from the spiritual to the cosmic for a second. Have you heard about the object known as 3I/ATLAS?

Astronomers are scratching their heads over it. This thing isn’t just another rock drifting through space; it is pure weirdness wrapped in metal. Astronomers first spotted it on July 1, 2025, with the ATLAS telescope network in Chile. Confirmed as our solar system’s third interstellar visitor, it’s already shaking up assumptions about what space can throw at us, 3I/ATLAS came from outside our solar system, making it only the third known interstellar object to visit us (after ‘Oumuamua and Borisov.) That in itself is pretty amazing, that something from OUTSIDE of our solar system is coming so close to our Earth.

Here’s where it gets weirder: researchers found that it seems to be made almost entirely of pure nickel, roughly 33 billion tons of it, with no trace of iron. And that is weird because nature just doesn’t do that.

“According to observations, its surface reflects light like polished metal smooth, bright, almost engineered. And it’s not just reflecting sunlight; scientists have detected streams of charged nickel plasma, as if it’s generating its own energy. The strangest part? The front of the object glows from within, shining on the side that faces forward, not the Sun. Physics has no explanation for that.

Some are already comparing it to the infamous ‘Oumuamua, that cigar-shaped interstellar visitor in 2017 that behaved like a probe.”


Maybe the Universe is Trying to Get Our Attention

What makes 3I/ATLAS so fascinating isn’t just what it is, it’s what it represents. A reminder that maybe, just maybe, there’s more happening in the universe than our limited lens allows.

For all we know, this could be a relic from a civilization that evolved millions of years before us. Or it could be a completely natural phenomenon that just looks like technology because we still don’t get how vast creation really is. Either way, it’s humbling.

Maybe 3I/ATLAS isn’t just a comet, maybe it’s an object filled with history and lessons, a mirror, reflecting back how little we truly know about our origins and about our true selves. Humanity spends so much time chasing power and certainty, yet the universe keeps dropping mysteries that remind us, we’re still students here, and we do not have all the answers.

Whether this thing turns out to be ancient tech, divine timing, or just the universe flexing its mystery muscles, it’s a nudge to stay open to any of these possibilities because the moment we think we’ve figured it all out, something amazing comes gliding through the stars to remind us otherwise.

Would you be “ready,” or just curious enough to be changed by a visit of this nature? I think that too many people have an illusion in their minds of what Yeshua (Jesus) was or is and would probably be terrified if “he” actually descended upon Earth. Same goes for any interdimensional being. People talk about alien invasions often and some claim they can’t wait to meet beings from another dimension. Sure, people are curious but how would they really treat someone or something that is coming from somewhere not of this Earth, that is the real question.

The gap between what people say they believe and what they can actually embody is a big one.

Everyone loves the idea of enLIGHTment (“light”) until it starts illuminating their shadows. If a being like Yeshua appeared, it wouldn’t just be “peace and love”; it would be a mirror so clear it would terrify most. And if we can’t handle differences at the human level, how could we handle a consciousness that dissolves all categories altogether?

The irony is that most people expect a mystical experience to feel peaceful or soothing, when in truth it would probably hit more like an earthquake, shaking up everything you thought you knew. Not something dark or evil, just a level of truth so raw it forces you to look inward and reevaluate how you’ve been living. It would definitely make us look inward and re-evaluate what our faith means, or lack thereof.

It’s interesting to me that I’m not what you’d call “religious,” yet I’ve found myself reflecting on the life of Yeshua (Jesus) more often lately. The more I read and learn, the more I sense that he was an ascended master who came to remind humanity that the real power lies within each of us. Unfortunately, what followed after his death, was layers and layers of doctrine and organized religion, which seem to have buried that message under centuries of idolization and fanaticism. Too many people ended up worshipping the messenger instead of living the message. And it seems to me that with every generation that passes, who Jesus really was gets more and more distorted. Not only on how he truly looked, how he lived and where he came from, but mainly the essence of his teachings has been misinterpreted through time.

Here is a not so common belief: “Jesus was a real person living on Earth, who achieved enlightenment under the order of Melchizedek and some believe is originally from the Pleiades star cluster. His soul group was able to ignite our ascension into the 5D Earth. These things get misinterpreted throughout time. It’s like playing that game “telephone game.

Melchizedek first appears in the Book of Genesis as the King of Salem and “Priest of the Most-High God.” He blesses Abraham with bread and wine, symbols that echo through spiritual traditions to this day. What makes him remarkable is that his priesthood predates the Levitical line, meaning it wasn’t inherited or tied to any human institution. Later, the Book of Hebrews describes Yeshua as a “High Priest forever, in the order of Melchizedek,” highlighting a type of spiritual authority that comes directly from divine alignment rather than human lineage.

Beyond scripture, the Order of Melchizedek has become a symbol in esoteric and metaphysical teachings. It represents a consciousness of service, unity, and love, a priesthood of the soul that transcends religion. Those aligned with this “order” are said to embody divine wisdom, acting as guides, healers, or way-showers to assist humanity’s spiritual evolution. Here, priesthood is less about titles and rituals and more about awakening the inner authority each of us carries: the power to connect directly with Source and live in alignment with higher consciousness.

Whether viewed historically or spiritually, Melchizedek embodies a timeless truth: true authority is not granted by institutions, titles, or power structures, it comes from the direct experience of the divine within.

And that was one of the principal points of Jesus’ teachings, that we hold the divine power within us.

The illusion that people carry in their minds of who “Jesus Christ” was, is a far cry from who he really was and what he believed in and what he preached. His teachings deeply emphasized living with integrity, caring for others, and seeking a divine connection.

His message was about creating a community rooted in love and justice and encouraged people to join in SPIRITUAL awakening and transformation. Jesus taught that LOVE is the greatest commandment. He encouraged caring for others, especially enemies, and practicing KINDNESS in everyday life. And I know he would be a big fan of human rights if he was here today on Earth!

The more people stray away from truth and create their own versions of history, and use religion to justify behavior, the more it is necessary to re-emphasize basic principles of said, “religion” in the Christian world.

Here are some of the most basic of those principles, as stated by the Jewish man, Jesus Christ (Yeshu’a) himself.:

  “Love your neighbor as yourself.” (Matthew 22:39)

The Golden Rule: 
 “So, in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.” (Matthew 7:12)

  “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” (Luke 6:31)

The reality is that in today’s world, most Christians (and religious people in general) are not living their lives by the scripture verses and commandments they so vehemently follow. And if aliens or the “man” known as Jesus (Yeshua) showed up in today’s world, (especially in the U.S.,) he would probably be persecuted (again) because so many people are still not aligned with the power within themselves and too caught up in judgment and in fear, of each other, and of the unknown.

If an Ascended Master or interdimensional being walked the Earth today, would we even notice? Would humanity even be ready for the light it prays for? Would we believe it if they told us about intelligent beings from other worldly dimensions arriving here? How would they be treated? Would we be receptive to it?

Are we ready for the light we claim to seek or for the veil to really be lifted?

What would you do?

The Cosmic and the Christed: Mirrors of Awakening

Here’s the connection: maybe Yeshua and 3I/ATLAS aren’t so different. One came to awaken the divine spark inside humanity; the other drifts silently through the stars, challenging us to look up and remember how vast and mysterious the universe really is. If we really took time to break away from the craziness of life and analyze the vastness of the Universe and its mysteries, we would understand that moments like this can be pivotal moments in our lives.

Why? Well, because they both stir something ancient in us, a memory of connection, intelligence, and unity that goes beyond religion or science. One speaks of divinity and enlightenment, the other to the infinite. Yet both quietly speak the same message: That we are part of something far greater than we have been led to believe.

Maybe the real “second coming” isn’t a person descending from the sky, but a shift in consciousness. It is a moment when we finally start seeing through illusion (the matrix) and remembering that the divine has always been within us and all around us.

When we can meet that truth without fear, without worship, without needing to control it, that’s when humanity might finally be ready!

Always remember, no matter what is happening in this world, approach it with faith over fear and the knowing that we each have the power within us! -LR

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FINDING LIGHT IN LIFE’S MESSY MOMENTS

As beautiful as life can be, the reality is that it can get pretty messy sometimes and makes us ask, “Why?” Why is this happening? Why does it have to be so difficult? “Why Me? Why Now? Is it all worth the heartaches and challenges we face? Not everyone has these questions but more often than not, we have all faced some kind of hardship or challenge that really has us questioning everything, especially lately.

Life isn’t a straight line, it’s a cycle. It is a constant up and down of emotions. There are highs that lift us up and lows that (sometimes) break us open. And as much as we’d love to skip the hard parts, those darker moments are often what shape us the most. This is especially difficult for someone who doesn’t really have faith or believe in a “bigger picture,” to comprehend or accept the obstacles they are faced with. Personally, I find it the best way to cope with the chaos of life, to believe that everything has meaning and a purpose, even when it doesn’t make sense or hurts so much. And then of course, there are moments in life when catastrophic things happen, that are just inexplicable and for that I really don’t have answers.

From personal experience, I’ll never forget the time in my life when my mother was dying of cancer. It was, without question, one of the hardest things, if not the hardest, I’ve ever faced, yet also one of the most profound. It cracked me open in ways I didn’t expect, especially years later.

During that time in my life, my family became closer than ever. Every day felt fragile and sacred at the same time. When the moment came for my mom to take her last breath, we were all there surrounding her with love, holding space as she transitioned into another realm. It was heartbreaking, but it was also a privilege. A moment of grace inside the grief.

The lessons my mother taught my family and I through her strength, courage, and quiet resilience have stayed with me for life. Her journey reminded me that none of us are here forever and that’s exactly why how we live matters and what legacy we leave to our children and to others.

We can’t always control what happens to us, but we can choose how we respond to it. That choice is where our power and our peace, really begin. It is in the choices we make on how we live our lives that leave a lasting impact, whether for good or for bad.

My personal belief is that we did not incarnate here on Earth simply to live a mediocre life and just work, eat, pay bills, and repeat, day in and day. If we are not doing something that brings us joy or makes a difference in our lives or in the lives of others, then what are we even doing here?

Life Isn’t Meant to Be Smooth Sailing

Life is a constant see-saw of good times and bad times. A yin-yang of cyclical moments. And sometimes when things are going really well, or we get a little too comfortable or complacent, life has a funny way of humbling us. Just when we think we’ve got everything under control, something happens that throws us off course, for example, a plan falls apart, someone disappoints us, or we hit an unexpected roadblock.

The truth is, life will always come with ups and downs. Joy and heartbreak. Clarity and confusion. We don’t get to skip the hard parts, but we do get to decide how we respond to them. That’s where the real growth happens.

Every day, we’re tested in small ways. The red light that makes you late for work, the flat tire, the canceled meeting. All those moments that make you sigh and roll your eyes. But what if they’re not just inconveniences? What if they’re small moments of protection or divine timing? Maybe that red light kept you from crossing paths with an accident. Maybe that delay gave you space to avoid something you weren’t meant to walk into.

Even the bigger challenges like the broken foot that sidelines you, the illness that slows you down, the heartbreak that cracks you open might hold something deeper for you that you still have not addressed (perhaps from an emotional perspective.) Sometimes the Universe has to hit the brakes for us when we won’t do it ourselves. Maybe that injury is a reminder to rest, to appreciate your health, or to reconnect with gratitude for the simple things.

It’s not always easy to see the lesson in the moment. Pain rarely feels like purpose while we’re in it. But over time, those moments shape us. They build real strength, compassion, and faith, not the easy, picture-perfect kind, but the kind you earn by getting through things you never thought you could. Like facing cancer and somehow finding the courage to keep going or losing someone you love and learning how to breathe again anyway.

Life has this strange way of toughening us up while also softening our hearts. We become stronger, but also more understanding, more aware, a little wiser than before.

No matter how positive or mindful we try to be, life will always have its lessons and obstacles. That’s not failure that’s being human. The goal isn’t to control every outcome, but to stay open through it all because when we stop fighting the ups and downs and start flowing with them, we realize something powerful: every challenge, every detour, every “why me?” moment might just be leading us somewhere we’re meant to go.

The real spiritual journey isn’t all peace signs and good vibes. It’s messy. It’s losing things and people you thought you couldn’t live without…and somehow finding a deeper kind of love through the pain. It’s learning to sit in both the chaos and the calm and still choose compassion anyway.

So, if it feels like everything’s falling apart, it doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong, it means you’re evolving. Sometimes life has to shake things up so we can see what’s real and what’s just been placed on us by the world. It’s part of our own evolution and growth, a way to shed all those old layers and get back to who we truly are, who we were born to be.

When people talk about a “spiritual awakening,” it’s not always about religion. It is about learning who we are authentically and learning to live in our truth and power, not in who and what we were conditioned to believe. It’s more about waking up to your authentic self and learning who you are underneath all the expectations and choosing to live in a way that helps you to become the best version of YOU!

And when you make it through, you’ll find a peace that doesn’t disappear when life gets hard, or a love that doesn’t need to be proven, and a self that no longer crumbles under pressure. You won’t need that approval from others. You will just learn to be you and love yourself as you are, flaws and all. The hard times and challenges aren’t your enemy; they are your gateway to light.

In the end, obstacles are part of the human experience. They’re not there to destroy us, but to wake us up and help us grow as human beings. Every challenge gives us a chance to choose whether to spiral into chaos or to turn toward the light that’s trying to be revealed through it.

If I can give you one takeaway in this article it is this: “Obstacles are necessary. They either become agents of chaos or opportunities for enlightenment. How we respond is the key.” ~LR

Life will always throw obstacles our way, some small, and some that knock the wind out of us. We don’t get to choose when they come, but we do get to decide what we do with them. That’s where growth happens, in the space between resistance and acceptance. That is where our true power lies.

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THE POWER OF PERSPECTIVE: Navigating Truth and Fear in Today’s Politics

Florida, United States – Real life these days feels stranger than fiction and the lines between truth and fiction have become blurred, thanks to an obsession with extremism, social media and bias media. Daily life seems to be shaped by whichever narrative has sunk in deepest. This is where we are in the United States at this moment in time. A time of political unrest, upheaval, division, chaos in marginalized communities and uncertainty about our future, in general.

Truth is truth, but as we are living during a time where truth and facts are being redefined and turned upside down and inside out, we have to differentiate between truth and facts. Facts are objective pieces of information that can be verified, like data, scientific evidence, or reality-based observations.

Truth, however, can be broader and more subjective; it often includes personal perspective, beliefs, and experiences. Someone’s “truth” may reflect how they interpret or feel about reality, which can differ from factual accuracy. And it most certainly feels like many people are imposing their own versions of truth on reality. Which can get awfully confusing when you believe that we do create our own reality, or we at least shape it.

The important thing to remember is that regardless of the reality you may want to live in, facts matter because honesty builds trust and trust shapes our future. Standing up to tell the ‘truth’ (about facts) feels like an act of courage these days. The issue is when people try to tell their own version of truth, not the facts.

For argument’s sake, the reference used in this article about “speaking the truth” refers to speaking about facts.

As we focus on the truth/facts, it is important to bring up integrity. “Integrity is being honest, sincere, and consistently adhering to strong moral and ethical principles, even when it’s difficult or no one is watching.” We have politicians and people who choose to ignore facts and lack integrity. We desperately need leaders who have integrity and can navigate the political arena without losing their moral compass, especially at a time when it matters more than ever. American citizens (and people in general) are more likely to support leaders who have integrity and are seen as honest and transparent.

It has becoming increasingly more difficult to turn away from the political narratives and chaos being created day in a day out, especially on the news and social media platforms. For example, when someone who watches Fox, NewsMax or OANN daily hears “border invasion” on repeat, and “immigration crisis,” it feels like a given fact, not a contested claim.

On the flip side, someone scrolling CNN, MSNBC or progressive TikTok hears, “democracy is under attack” and then that concept is ingrained into their sense of urgency.

Neither side pauses to think, is this accurate and who taught me this is normal? We need to ask why we value one media news outlet as the only truth, when now-a-days, most news networks are more entertainment than anything and only focused on ratings, not reporting the facts, only their interpretation of it, based on partisanship.

This partisan way of living affects real life in all kinds of ways. For example, parents might show up at school board meetings furious about “indoctrination,” without ever questioning how they got that language in the first place. Meanwhile, other parents assume inclusive lessons are just obvious and the way things should be (from their perspective.) Both are operating inside pre-shaped “common sense,” based on what they believe is “right” or on how their views were shaped.

Today in the United States (2025,) the memes, the jokes, and the soundbites people share aren’t neutral. They reinforce a worldview that is warped by the constant bombardment of partisan points of view. A “dark Brandon” meme or a “woke mind virus” rant isn’t just entertainment; it’s training people on what to find normal or absurd. This is why it is so important to learn to navigate truth and not live in fear, based on today’s political climate. Although, admittedly, it has become increasingly more difficult to ignore everything that is going on.

There is a tug-of-war between the idea that America (U.S.A.) is fundamentally a democracy worth protecting versus the narrative that elections are rigged or illegitimate. That clash isn’t just about ballots; it’s about what story the American people believe.

What if, maybe, we tried to step outside the narratives we are bombarded with, which kinda’ feels a bit like when you realize a background noise has been humming the whole time. You don’t even notice it until the moment you do, and then you can’t un-hear it.

If collectively people broke through all the noise in 2025, it might look like this:

Instead of automatically accepting blanket statements like, “healthcare is tied to your job” or “college debt is normal,” people might ask: Who benefits from me believing that? Suddenly it’s clear: the insurance companies, lenders, the banks etc… not necessarily them.

And instead of reacting to book bans or rainbow flags as inherently good or bad, people might see the fight itself as the point. Meaning, politicians gain power by keeping us locked in endless outrage, because seriously, how is a rainbow affecting your day-to-day life? And why ban books because some people don’t like the contents? What are people a really afraid of? Is it that their ideologies are under attack? Is it personal insecurities? Religion? Need for control? The reasons are endless, but it all boils down to fear.

What we need to learn to do is to respect our differences and recognize that perceptions are shaped by personal experiences and that sometimes, dialogue is more about understanding than changing minds. We MUST learn to listen to each other, not just talk to defend or ready to pounce on the other person’s perspective. Ultimately, promoting open-mindedness and empathy creates space for constructive conversations, even when opinions differ. The key is to be willing to even engage in those types of conversations.

Sometimes it helps to pause, zoom out and take a step back from different political viewpoints. For instance, when you do, you start to see that both the ‘election denial’ crowd and the ‘democracy under attack’ crowd are running on fear. Sure, one has more facts behind it, but the common thread is the same: fear, which is the lever being pulled to move people in the direction that is convenient for those in power.

Fear is exhausting. The constant “Breaking News” banners, on tv and online, the daily “gloom and doom” narrative. It’s like living in a never-ending emergency drill. But here’s the thing: while we can’t flip a switch and change the headlines, we can change how we respond to them.

Perspective is our power. When we catch ourselves spiraling in the fear cycle, we can instead choose to focus on possibility, solutions, or even just gratitude for what’s steady in our own lives, we shift the energy we’re putting out into the world. That matters. The collective mood isn’t some abstract idea. It is built from millions of small, personal frequencies stacking on top of each other. That is the collective consciousness!

If enough people stop feeding fear and start feeding clarity, compassion, and hope, the tone of our politics and culture has to shift. Leaders will rise to meet the energy we project. Media outlets follow the attention we give. Communities reflect the conversations we’re having. We the people, have the power with our pockets, our voices and our frequency…our energy, our responses.

Changing your perspective isn’t just a self-care move; it helps to shift the political spectrum (as much as it can be changed.) It’s how we change the channel on the collective frequency from constant panic to forward momentum. Some people call it “positive thinking,” but it goes way beyond that. Positive thinking is a vital part of personal growth, but when we shift the collective consciousness, we transform societal narratives of how we see ourselves and each other. So that positive change is rooted in shared awareness, that ultimately influences how communities (and nations too,) operate.

To put it into perspective, positive thinking is like when we plant a single tree and take care of it to make sure it grows healthy and strong, but when we change the collective consciousness, it’s like we planted a whole forest. When enough trees grow and thrive together, the entire landscape transforms.

When we steer away from fear, change our perspective and change our thinking, we create personal change, but collective awareness is about creating an entire environment shift that benefits everyone.

Fear undoubtedly sells, so media outlets double down on alarm bells. People end up living in a constant state of “next crisis incoming,” which shapes what they talk about, what they buy, even how they raise their kids. I mean aren’t you tired already of hearing and seeing ‘Breaking News” every single day?! Every day feels like gloom and doom.

When fear is the baseline for every news story, every conversation, especially in politics, every election feels like ‘do-or-die.’ People vote less on policy they like, and more on who they think will stop the “worst-case scenario.” That keeps polarization alive. This is why we are facing the issues we are facing today in American politics 2025.

Instead of absorbing the concept of what “real America is supposed to look like, people could try to recognize that the United States has always been messy, and not always this “great” fictional utopia. There’s no single default of greatness. There never was. And no ONE person is coming in to save us. WE are the ones we have been waiting for.

When we each commit to growing and bettering ourselves and let go of fear and predispositions towards each other, we can collectively elevate the whole, and in this way, create a ripple of positive change that transforms our communities and the world.

What we radiate is what we receive. We have to change our frequency, collectively.

At our deepest level, we all share a fundamental desire for peace, love, health and freedom, how we get there is what seems to be up for debate. While our paths and opinions may differ, our hopes for a better life and a better world are more similar than they seem. Sometimes, the key is recognizing that beneath our divisions lies a common human longing and finding ways to work toward those shared dreams, together.

Afterall, peace starts with me & you. Politics aside, we are all from this Earth and should work to find common ground. Remember, we always have the power to choose where we stand and what we believe, and how we navigate truth in this complicated journey we are living.

We have the power within ourselves to endure all the ups and downs, we are faced with, whether that is in love, life or politics. It is the perspective we choose and how we navigate our responses and reactions that matters.

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CHOSEN ONES MAKING A DIFFERENCE

We are always shifting between who we are, who we were and who we want to be.

What you expect is what shows up. For example, if you expect a breakthrough, your mind will start scanning for “open doors.” Your focus and your thoughts are more powerful than you know.

Your purpose already exists, you just have to TUNE in (to higher frequency,) not chase. In order to become more conscious (awakened) you have to become more authentic, not necessarily more positive. Authenticity involves being both negative and positive and being aware that the two are necessary to find balance in our lives and within ourselves.


We all have divine DNA. We are warriors. Whether we are warriors of light or warriors of darkness is up to each of us. We have to be willing to wake up to our divinity and discover our greater purpose.


The willing CAN make a difference…just do small things with great love one day at a time...

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WAKE UP TO YOUR POWER

The Power to be Happy LESSON OF THE DAY:

The following are lessons and words of wisdom I gathered from listening to “Stacey & the Sage” (based on question and answers from AI,) as well as some of my own personal input.

Sometimes it feels like we are living in a hijacked reality, especially in recent times. It can feel like Earth is a prison planet because we are stuck in the systems and mindset meant to keep us “trapped.” The truth is that Earth can be a beautiful place, a sacred place meant to be a kind of living library. Our souls are here to remember, to grow but somewhere along the line, the natural system got infiltrated. It is our job to find our way back to our soul’s mission and awaken our best selves.

We are here to remember! You are not small. You are not broken. You are powerful.

The system is desperate to distract you, to keep you feeling small, numb, scared, confused, powerless. But simply waking up to YOUR POWER, you can begin to “awaken” and reclaim what is your birthright.

When we are disconnected from Source, that is when fear, hate and division easily takes over.

Disconnection weakens you.

Faith over fear is something we hear over and over, but it doesn’t necessarily refer to faith in religion. Regardless of what religion you may or may not adhere to, spirituality and connection to your higher consciousness, is where the magic happens. “Spirituality flows from the soul, not from an institution. – Matt Ryder

Spirituality connects us directly to Source, to the Universe and to one another. No middleman needed.

It is not about worshipping a God or Christ; the goal is to embody Christ-consciousness – to become an ascended being who masters love, kindness, empathy, compassion and empathy.

Obedient minds don’t question anything. They cling to authority and believe that guilt is holy. Learn to question everything.

Thoughts and feelings shape your reality. Reality is a reflection of consciousness. You can change the reflection (the mirror) by changing YOU! When you see (or watch) only trauma, (trouble, division, problems,) the mirror reflects distortion, and you start believing that is the “real” world.”

Change the mirror, the view, your thoughts and you will change YOU!

For example, change selfishness into SELF-LOVE!

Don’t fight the system, step out of it. Stop feeding into negative energy. Recognize everything we see is a mirror. It is showing you everything you have inside yourself, not as punishment but as feedback.

Low frequency (ie: fear) equals easy to steer & manipulate. To reclaim your “mirror,” you need to step out of fear and doubt.

Learn to speak with power. Your words are your POWER. Don’t say
“I can’t. Do not spell cast against yourself. Start using your voice to command the reality you want. “I WILL. I CAN. I AM…”

It is important to upgrade your level of consciousness to reshape how you see the world and live in it.

When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it…whoever you are, or whatever it is that you do, when you really want something, it’s because that desire originated in the soul of the universe. It’s your mission on earth.”” -“The Alchemist” by Paulo Coelho

Work on staying as positive as possible even when the world feels uncertain. The Universe doesn’t give you what you want, it gives you that which you are. Break through your limits.

We are more powerful than we give ourselves credit for.

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THE POWER OF LEADING BY EXAMPLE

Leadership isn’t just about giving orders or making decisions—it’s about inspiring others through your actions. To be a true leader, you must let go of ‘the boss” mentality and grow into a true leadership role through example.

True leaders stand up for what is right, whether it is for the employees in a company, constituents, customers, community, family, or any setting. They speak out when it matters and demonstrate integrity, compassion, and courage in their everyday conduct. A leader most certainly does not tear people down or tear them apart!

A leader speaks outs and stands up when it matters most.

If you do not speak out and stand up for what is right? Who will? And when? We are all leaders in our own right. It is up to us individually to assume the role and lead by example, whether at home, at work, or in our community.

Leading by example creates a culture of trust and respect. When you embody the values, you wish to see in others, you motivate those around you to do the same. Remember, words can inspire, but actions empower. It is not always about the things you say but what you do that counts!

So, whether you are guiding a team, supporting a family, or contributing to your community, your actions can inspire change and foster a positive environment. Be the leader who lifts others, stands firm in your principles, and sets the standard for excellence. Your actions today shape a better tomorrow!

And always ask yourself: Am I leading by example? Am I happy in what I am doing? When you are not happy with yourself or with what you are doing, it shows up in more ways than you can imagine. The most powerful influence comes with living authentically and with purpose and integrity, no matter what sector of society its in.

True leadership is not about being perfect, it’s about being authentic and making conscious choices that reflect your principles and encourages those around you to do the same.

Be a leader, not a boss!

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YOUR SKIN, YOUR GUT & YOUR HAPPINESS

Your Gut and Brain: A Powerful Connection to Your Health and Happiness

Did you know that your gut and brain are deeply connected—and this relationship plays a major role in both your physical health and mental well-being?

One clear example of this gut-brain connection is eczema, particularly atopic dermatitis, which has been linked not only to physical discomfort but also to mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. Research shows that individuals with eczema are more likely to struggle with mood disorders, especially as the severity of the condition increases.

The Emotional Toll of Eczema

Eczema goes far beyond itchy skin. The constant discomfort, disrupted sleep, and visible flare-ups can seriously impact daily life. Many people experience stress, social withdrawal, and lowered self-esteem—all of which can worsen symptoms of anxiety and depression. It becomes a frustrating cycle: physical irritation leads to emotional strain, and emotional strain, in turn, can trigger more flare-ups.

The Gut-Skin Connection

Emerging research highlights a fascinating link between gut health and skin health, often referred to as the gut-skin axis. A disrupted gut microbiome—a condition known as gut dysbiosis—can contribute to the development and severity of eczema, particularly in infants and young children.

Here’s how it works:

1. Immune System Development

Your gut plays a key role in training your immune system. An imbalance in gut bacteria can cause immune responses to misfire, potentially triggering skin inflammation and conditions like eczema.

2. Skin Barrier Function

A healthy gut microbiome supports a strong intestinal barrier, which keeps harmful substances out of your bloodstream. When this barrier is compromised, more allergens and irritants can circulate through your body and reach your skin—fueling eczema flare-ups.

3. Systemic Inflammation

An unhealthy gut can release inflammatory compounds into the body. These compounds can travel systemically and contribute to inflammation in the skin.

Nourish Your Gut, Support Your Skin

Incorporating probiotic-rich foods—such as yogurt, kefir, kimchi, and sauerkraut—may help balance your gut bacteria and reduce eczema symptoms. Additionally, a plant-forward, anti-inflammatory diet filled with fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and healthy fats can support both your gut and skin health.

According to Medical News Today, ongoing research supports the idea that our gut flora influences our skin’s health. When the immune system senses danger on the skin, it responds with inflammation—causing the characteristic itchy rash of eczema. This may be triggered by dysbiosis not only in the gut but also on the skin itself, which sets off a cycle of immune overreaction and persistent symptoms.


Final Thoughts

Your gut and brain are in constant communication, and when one is out of balance, the other can suffer too. By supporting your gut microbiome and caring for your mental wellness, you create a healthier foundation for your whole body—including your skin.

Take care of your gut and your mind, and the rest will begin to fall into place.


Elevate Your Mind, Empower Your Day

^ NOTE: Nootropic – can improve brain function, which in turn can affect the enteric nervous system (ENS), also known as the gut’s “second brain.” A healthy gut-brain connection is crucial for overall well-being. 

(Sources: Medical News Today, NIH)

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YOUR BRAIN’S BESTIE

FREQUENCY CHARGED NUTRITION

Forget spending money on expensive coffees and refresher drinks at the local chain coffee shop.

Why not invest your money on YOU and your health? Instead of a coffee every morning, or fancy refresher drinks, why not try something that is actually good for you?! A mango lemonade that is good for your health AND taste good!

This mango lemonade drink is the first frequency-charged nutritional product, which is made in an NSF approved facility.

What’s so incredible is that this product line has 11 harmonic frequencies! This is what makes this product special (as well as our other products.)

CHANCES ARE – YOU’VE NEVER HAD A FREQUENCY-CHARGED NUTRITIONAL SUPPLEMENT.

RISE (Mango Lemonade) is a 5-in-one because you’re getting the 7 organic mushrooms which is is equal to one full gram of mushrooms. You are getting methylated B vitamins amino acids nootropics and the 11 harmonic frequencies, so this is a five in one!

It is all ORGANIC mushrooms, which is great for immune support, inflammation support, liver support, mental health, adrenals, stress response, cortisol levels, oxygenation, energy.

It will make you feel like a light switch goes on in your brain and like everything’s clearer.

There is a reason why this drink (RISE) is going viral. Let’s just say it will become your brain’s new best friend. This tasty mango lemonade is loaded with 7 organic mushrooms, B vitamins, aminos, and the best part is that all of our Frequense products are CHARGED with frequency??? 🤔

🚨 Take a few minutes later today to listen to this video, which explains in DETAIL all about the 5-in-one drink, RISE!

If you want to learn more about a Mitochondria Health Reset, I invite you to listen to this video, especially if you love to hear about how different ingredients affect different parts of your body.

CONTACT ME FOR MORE INFORMATION:

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WWJD?

What would Jesus Do? (WWJD)

In this Easter/Passover season, I thought it would be a good time to refresh some memories for those who so passionately believe in Jesus (Yeshua). Now more than ever, do we need to be reminded of who he was historically and what he actually preached.*

Whether you believe Jesus was already here on Earth at some point or not, whether you believe he existed and resurrected or not; whether you believe he is truly the Son of G-d or not; whether you believe the perspective that he was an Ascended Master or not, the main point is that he was indeed a historical figure, who exemplified *LOVE, KINDNESS and COMPASSION

So today, in 2025, I share this so that it can be shared as a reminder of, What Would Jesus Do (WWJD?) if he lived in today’s society, especially when you are out and about dealing with other people.

To those celebrating Easter, here is a reminder of why you do:

Jesus of Nazareth, often referred to as Jesus Christ, was born around 4 BCE in Bethlehem, traditionally celebrated on December 25th. The Lat Supper, which was the meal right before Jesus’ death with his disciples, is said to have taken place during Passover celebration. Easter is the day that Christians celebrate the belief that Jesus rose from the dead three days after his crucifixion, an event celebrated as Easter Sunday.

Jesus was a Jewish carpenter, preacher and religious leader, who lived in the 1st century CE in the region now known as Israel and Palestine. He is the central figure of Christianity, one of the world’s largest religions, but he is also respected in other faiths, including Islam.

 HERE IS THE REMINDER PART:

 Jesus is often described as incredibly KIND and EMPATHETIC. He showed deep COMPASSION for the marginalized, including the poor, sinners, lepers, and women, who were often sidelined in society.  This is something that many people have forgotten as they have become less and less kind to each other and less tolerant of others who are different than them.

BEST PART: 

He listened to people, cared for their needs, and often healed those who were suffering.

Many of his teachings were conveyed through parables—simple stories with moral or spiritual lessons. These parables emphasized LOVE, HUMILITY, and FORGIVENESS.

One of his central messages was the importance of LOVE—love for God and LOVE FOR ONE’s NEIGHBOR. He taught about forgiveness, urging people to forgive others as they wish to be forgiven.

Jesus challenged social norms and spoke out against injustices. He advocated for the poor and critiqued the religious authorities of his time for their hypocrisy.

Jesus is said to have performed numerous miracles, including healing the sick, restoring sight to the blind, calming storms, and even raising the dead. These acts demonstrated his compassion and authority, further inspiring his followers and attracting attention.

In some spiritual and metaphysical circles, Jesus is viewed as an “ascended master,” a term used to describe enlightened beings who have transcended the limitations of the physical world and continue to guide humanity.

Personally, I believe that we need to attain “christ consciousness.” I do not believe that Jesus wanted followers, he intended to create leaders, equals. He did not intend to create Christians per se, but for people to raise their “christ consciousness.” When Jesus said, “I am the Way,” he meant be this way – christ-like.

It is important to understand how powerfully your beliefs create your reality.

While this concept is not universally accepted within traditional Christianity, many who follow mystical or new-age beliefs regard Jesus as a profound spiritual teacher. (My personal belief.)

Jesus’s teachings have had a lasting impact on human history, influencing ethics, morality, and law across cultures. His life and message continue to inspire millions of people around the world, promoting principles of love, compassion, and social justice.

In summary, Jesus is viewed as a kind, empathetic, and transformative figure who taught about love, forgiveness, and the importance of caring for others. His teachings and actions resonate deeply, making him a central figure in spirituality and ethics, beloved by many across different cultures and religions.

So when you are out and about doing and saying things in Jesus’s name, ask yourself…WWJD

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